Thursday, November 5, 2009

Saying Goodbye



When I wrote my post for an update, I lied to myself--- instead of making myself upset because of a very early pregnancy loss, I tried to hide my grief and thinked like nothing was happened but my tears can' t help from falling... I could feel pain from a corner of my heart-- I was in denial. My hopes and dreams with that baby was vanished. I feel sad and empty... I hope to cope with this grief and that is a piece of my wish......

25 comments:

Dee said...

Hi Clang, don't be sad. I'm really sorry for your loss but as they say, everything happens for a reason. Masakit talaga but just trust in the Lord, and know that things happen because they have a purpose. We may not understand it and it may be difficult to try to do so, pero just trust in Him. He knows what's best and I'm sure he'll bless you with another baby soon. Siguro it will help you deal with that pain if you look at your family right now and see that despite of the loss, you have them and are still blessed.

Take good care and God bless!

chubskulit said...

I agree with Dee, Clang. Everything happens for a reason. It is alright to grieve and I know how painful it is to have lost what you are hoping for. You are still young pa naman and let us just pray that He will bless you again with another one. I sent you email yesterday, not sure if you've got it.

Dito lang ako if you need someone to talk to okay. Wish I could be there to comfort you but I'll be praying for you and your family. Mwah..

hugs and kisses.

t'Rose

nikogirl said...

am so sorry to hear this my dear. i can feel how much grief you are feeling right now, i feel you and if i can only hug you right now i will. know that i am always here for you clang no matter what. God is our best director in life clang. things happen for a reason.. please hold on. everything will be clear at the right time just hold on to your faith...

love u dear. pls accept my virtual hugs and kisses..

am praying for u always. smile!

sweet_shelo said...

Sis, I am truly sorry to hear about your loss. I deeply feel for you. But sis, always remember that God gives us cross not to make us burdened of grieve, but there's always a good reason behind it. Dont vanish your hope for another child sis. You will still have. The Lord is good and knows what's best for us. Trust in Him and you will see.

Anney said...

I'm sorry to hear about your loss. I know over time the pain you feel inside will start to diminish and you will feel better again. My reason si God kung bakit nangyari yun. You'll be in my prayers!!! bIG HUGSSSSS!! I'm sure you'll be blessed again with another baby.

payatot said...

mommy clang, ayan nawala pala baby mo, kakalungkot naman talaga lalo na kung nag wish ka na magkaroon ka agad nito tapos ganun ang nangyari. mahirap talaga pero alam ko naman na kaya mo yan. malay natin magkaroon ka ulit soon di ba? ingat na lang lagi at ipag pray kita.

Bambie dear ★ said...

its ok to grieve, cry and be sad for awhile.. you lost something important to you and your family kaya its ok. Sana agad lumipas at maka-recover kana agad.. im sure you will, you're a strong woman at nandyan ang family mo.. you're still blessed.. madami nagmamahal sayo, kahit yung iba di ka pa nakikita personally, kasama na ko dun sa mga maraming nagmamahal sayo.. kaya pa-ring mo lang ako, ill call you agad if you need someone to talk to..

Cecile said...

Clang, I know how you feel because I lost our first baby also. she was almost seven months old in my tummy then all of a sudden she stopped breathing. Just like they said: everything happens for a reason, whatever the reason was, only God knows. Crying and denial are part of grieving; so just let yourself grieve and cry it will make you feel better in the end. Hugs for you and your family, Clang. I will pray for you.

David Funk said...

I'm really sorry to hear of this my friend. Since everyone else has said what I would here, I'll just say that everything in life does happen for a reason. God will still bless you even if we don't quite understand why somethings in life happen.

God Bless my dear friend!

Mom of Four said...

Hey Clarisssa, I am sorry that you had miscarriage. I don't have any word of wisdom for you to feel better. Everything happens for a reason. It's not meant to be. It's better na nangyari on the early stage, rather than the last trimester di ba? Just look at your kids and tell yourself, you will get pregnant again. bata ka pa naman.

Beng said...

I will pray for you mommy clang

all the best...God Bless

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shydub said...

Ohhh Clang Im so sorry, I wish I am there right now to give you a hug. I feel sad for your loss, akala ko pa naman dugo lng yun, kasi may mga buntis na dinudugo at first 3 few weeks of their pregnancy. I pray that you can cope up with your grief clang and overcome this experience. You need your hubbys shoulder now to comfort with what you are feeling right now. And maybe you should try to go outm, have fun with wakaba ang haruka para hindi ka ma depress clang. It will take a while bago mo talaga matanggap ang nangyari, just don't blame yourself. Hindi pa siguro panahon clang. You take care and God bless you always.

Manang Kim said...

Hello Mommy Clare, cheer up I know your grieving for now but I know, someday somehow you will get through it. God is good and things happen in a reason. You take care and God bless!!

Lulu said...

sorry to hear about it mami clang. it is alright to grieve.. umiyak ka, karapatan mo yon. In the end, try to think that a lot of people close and (not so close) are there for you and who loves you. You have haruka and wakaba and of course the hubby so remember to take care of yourself too. Wish you all the best... i know in time all will be back to normal. Take care...

Meryl (proud pinay) said...

I'm really sorry to hear about your loss sis...talagang nakakalungkot talaga ang mga ganyang pangyayari...pero sis...You can assure that I will pray for you...na sana magkaroon ulit kayo ng baby...keep safe always.... God bless you .

r u s s said...

I'm sorry to hear bout your loss Clarissa. Hang in there, stay strong, and never lose faith.

Reena said...

hi clarissa. oh no. i'm sorry to hear about your loss. it's good that you blogged about it kasi it will help you during your grieving process. Isipin mo nlng that you have an angel guiding and looking after you now. You are still very blessed with two kids. Hope you'll feel better soon. Take care!

Yami said...

Hi Clang. I hope you'll get over your grief soon.

Dhemz said...

me too mami Clang...I agree with Dee....in every circumstances there is always a reason.

Let us pray to God...am sure God will never fail you and will bless you with another baby....

I feel for your lose...so sorry....take care and get yourself occupied....just be thankful na your family is there to comfort you....healthy kau.

ingat lagi mami Clang and be strong...my SIL loss her baby during her 2 trimester...that was devastating.

hug and kisses from us ni Akesha...mwah!

Hi! I'm Grace said...

It's ok to be sad, but get over it soon, Clarissa. Bata ka pa naman at may 2 girls ka na. Magkaka-baby ka pa rin uli.
Huwag mong kalimutan na may maraming magandang bagay sa paligid mo.

Jac said...

Nandito lang ako kung gusto mo ng kausap.. Stay strong..Love you sis :) God bless!

Seiko said...

I know how you feel Clarissa I had had a miscarriage too 2 years ago & me & hubby had had diffilculties on accepting the fact that he'll be gone forever.I almost lost my youngest Yuriko too when she was 8 mos. old. had the same experienced w/ my eldest when she was 4 mos naman then sa 2nd sibling ko.Sa 3rd sibling ko naman I stayed in the hospital bedridden for 6 mos.
I hope & pray that you can cope w/ the loss.

eden said...

Hi Mommy Clang,

i know how sad it is.I pray for you that you will recover soon and have another baby. God bless you always and your family.

Rossel said...

I'm sorry about your loss, Clang. It's okay to grieve and cry, makakatulong yan para gumaan ang pakiramdam mo.

look at the bright side. bata ka pa at pwede ka pang magkaanak ulit. you have a loving husband and 2 lovely angels who are always there for you.

wish I could be there. hugs and kisses to you, Clang!

onlinemommy said...

Allow God to comfort you and heal whatever wound left in your heart. The God who gives the beginning, gives the end :)God is still in control, you may not know yet the reason behind all this pain, but if you truly trust in God, He will reveal to you His purpose why HE allowed this thing to happen. He knows the best for us.

God bless you :)

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