Saturday, February 21, 2009

Proposed to Marry Tag

I've been tagged by Mommy Maria of Maria Went To Chicago. Thank you very much-- I enjoyed doing this and reminscing as well. ^_^ Though this might not be a romantic one, this is one of happenings of my life that I always keep.
My ideal of a perfect proposal is this: the setting will be at the beach, sunset( of course ) and there he'll give me the engagement ring and say the magic word " I wanna share the rest of my life with you, will you marry me? " .




BUT it was impossible coz I was working then in the evening as an entertainer here in Japan and when my husband proposed to me in the club, it was noisy! When he proposed to me, I said " What? I didn't hear you! " he said " kekkon shiyou "( a straight and simple marry me ) 3 times coz we're not hearing each other well. He proposed to me a week before finishing my contract for 6 months and decided to meet his parents. I met his parents but I didn't know that his Father is against a Filipina. After a long waiting of processing of papers, we became man and wife and then we went back again to his parents house and that's the only time I heard the truth that he is against me. Gees!! That time I was nervous because of that long silence between both parties.We are all sitted at a coffee table ( japanese stlyle ) me and my husband, and they're all facing in front of us. But my husband said to his Father that he's not asking for forgiveness for marrying a Filipina but he wants to introduce me that I am now his wife and whatever happens, it's his decision and responsibility. Even if his father is against of our marriage, my husband fighted for our love. After that, his father asked his wife to prepare a hotpot. While my Mother-In-Law is preparing the hotpot, she was crying-- she told me that hotpot is served during winter time, she said that it means that I am now accepted in the family because for them a HOTPOT is shared by family and that time it was summer and then we both cried.


I will wait for you down the aisles, Count each step and everystep, while you and I will be together, never to be parted forever and ever --- Yoshiyuki

I will walk to the altar to where you are, Smile to the world like a shining star, Take your hand as I have never done because you and I will be one. --- Clarissa




Reception in Japan

I'm passing this tag to all of my friends who wants to share their Proposal stories. Please grab them! ^_^ Have a nice day everybody!

30 comments:

Clarissa said...

@Mommy Maria: I've been trying to visit your blog but I can't--I wonder why?(T_T)

Cecile said...

You are not alone, Clarissa; been tryig to access her blog but to no avail, let me know kung na access mo na ha.

I admire you and your hubby for fighting for your love. Your hubby loves you so much. You are a very lucky woman.... and he is a lucky man. You deserve each other :-) take and see you again tomorrow!

Cecile said...

you guys look good together.... both good looking couple!

Elizabeth said...

ganda naman ng love story nyo! against all odds, pero ambilis din naman ikaw na-accept, you're one blessed woman to have experienced that. thanks Clarissa for the visits!
you're right btw, di nga ma-access ung blog ni Maria. sorry kala ko pwede sa Firefox. :)

Elizabeth said...

ngapala, i forgot to tell you that you're one lovely bride ha? kaya pala di ka na pinakawalan e! :)

Anney said...

Ang sweet namn ng husband mo! Pinaglaban ka talaga nya! Have a great week!

Dhemz said...

me too Mommy Clarz...I can't visit Maria's page now..sabi don...uninvited daw ako sa page nya...hohohoh...kakaiyak naman..outcasted tuloy ako nito...hehhehe!


Anyhow...agreed ako kay Ate Ces Mommy Clarz...very sweet naman ng banana mo...he's one of the great guys out there...yung may respeto sa culture natin...am sure love na love nyo ang isat isa....great pics...gand mo dito sis...:) thanks for sharing....:) miss to hear from you!

payatot said...

hello, nagkaalaman sa pag serve ng hotpot ano? buti na lang at andun yung hotpot na yun, ehehehehe..

ganda ng story ah, pang maalaala mo kaya yan...mukha naman masaya kayo pareho kaya good luck na lang sa inyong mag asawa..napadaan lang at nagbasa

Exciting Posts Collecter said...

nice & pretty couple

chubskulit said...

I can't view Maria's blog too huhuhu..

Hey Clarz, Di man romantic yung proposal sayo but o the fact tht he fought for your love is more than romantic... Am just curious, why is your father in law agains Filipinas.. Di nya ba alam na the best maging wife ag Pinay hahaha.. That's according to hubby's opinion.

niko said...

wow!!! ang ganda mo clang ha!! kaya pala di nakaresist si fafa mo eh :)

and just like ours mejo you and me against the world din pala kau before pero look at both of u now?? naku naman!!! going stronger forever ha :)

congrats dear.. naku kaya pala kegagandang bata ng mga anak mo eh.. ganda ng inyong genes :D

Sweet Girl said...

wow nkakaiyak nman yung story mo sis talagang he love you so much pinaglaban ka nya youre a lovely bride sister.

Manang Kim said...

Ay kinilig ako sa story mo clair. You look so gorgeous in your wedding gown and the one with that geisha attire (am i right with that costume name?). Iba na talaga pag mahal ka nang isang tawo harangin man nang sibat makuha ka lamang hehe.

She said...

Hi Clarissa..both of you looked great. Such a great looking couple!! It is nice to know of such loving couples like yourself and your better half..

Have a nice day!

Clarissa said...

@Ate Ces: Nope,di ko pa rin po ma-contact si Mommy Maria.Thank you po for dropping by and leaving comments.^_^
@Mommy Beth: My father-In-law accepted me like his own daughter now and really blessed!Thanks for dropping by!^_^
@Anney: Hello there,Anney!Thanks for dropping by!Have a great week to you,too!^_^
@Mommy Dhemz: It was my first time seeing them raising their voice and it was shocking to know that his father is against me.It wasn't easy at first,though.Thanks for dropping by!^_^
@Payatot: hahahaa!!Ganun talaga ang mga hapon,ayaw nila yung masyadong pinapakita yung feelings nila!Nagmana nga yata ang husband ko sa tatay nya!Thanks for dropping by!^_^
@Exciting Post Collector: Thanks for the compliment and for dropping by!^_^
@Ate Rose: A lot of Filipinas and Chinese wives married to Japanese at my In-Laws place before but most of them now were gone.His father is worried that my husband will experience the same thing because I am a Filipina,too. Talagang wala ng pinay wives dun sa kanila,Te ako na lang ang natira!They run away from their Japanese husband-- I have met some of them.Some says they've been maltreated,some says they want more money and now working at a club.(Who knows,I don't want to be jugdemental).That's why my father in law is against a filipina and I can't blame him for not trusting Filipinas anymore.Until then,I am still the only one pinay on their place.Thanks for dropping by!^_^
@Niko: yap,were the same--bagay sa atin yung kantang 'you're still the one' ni Shaina Twain!Thanks for dropping by!^_^
@sister Grace: first time ko yatang pinagmukhang mabait asawa ko ah!lol!Thanks for dropping by!^_^
@Ate Kim: wwaaaa!!kinilig daw!!ayokong magpakilig ng tao,gusto ko ako yung pinapakilig!lol!Kimono po ang tawag dun.That was my Mother-In-Laws Kimono.Thanks for dropping by!^_^

eds said...

shocks!pang maala-ala nga ang story mo ate Clarissa. Alam mo baka na mis-judge ka lang at first ng father in law mo kasi nga Entertainer ka before. But then again I have lots og friends na naging entertainer sa Japan.. hehe Pati nga ako nangarap jan eh and ang ikasasama naman daw ng pagiging entertainer eh nasa tao di ba.

Teka nalayo ang comment hehe.. Ayun, nakakatuwa nman ang husband mo. Na inlove talaga sau hano. One more thing hayaan mo na yung proposal kahit hindi maganda yun maintindihan mong desidido sia na maging kahati ng buhay niya (tama ba) eh isa sa pinaka unforgetable moments para sau. Iniharap ka na rin niya sa altar and now look at you. You have two pretty angels.. Im happy for you! I wish you both happiness kasama ang mga kids .. :)

Clarissa said...

@Mommy She: Thanks po sa papuri and for the visits!!Have a nice day po!^_^
@Eds: Oo nga,iba rin kasi ang dating ng mga entertainer tapos yung nag-run away na pinay dun,grupo ko pa naman dati-nauna lang magpakasal sa akin.(T_T)Kaya di ko rin masisisi kung bakit ganun na lang ang ayaw ng tatay nya sa pinay dati.Thanks for dropping by ha!^_^

chubskulit said...

I see, ganun pala... I am glad that he saw the real you Clarz....

Dee said...

Aw, that was really romantic... because your husband fought for your love, no matter what. You're so blessed to have such a loving and fine husband. And he's so blessed too to have a beautiful wife. You're so beautiful in your wedding!

Take good care, Clarissa! Have a wonderful day! :D

reanaclaire said...

wow..u r so beautiful and charming, clarissa.. actually, are u a chinese or a japanese? i m getting more and more curious.. haha...

Maria said...

You look so beautiful and your hubby. I admire your love to each other. May God bless your relationship to be together forever.

Maria said...

Girl, I am here. I got a problem with my PC. I am sorry everyone that I need to shut down and fix them I Apologized for not letting you know. Emergency. love you guys.

richard said...

You look love on your wedding dress and you look good together...

What a perfect couple....

Have a nice day Calarissa and thank you so much for always visiting my blog....

Umma said...

Wow.. inspirational pala ang love story nyo Clarz.. kaka touched naman...but love always prevails..

Kahit na anong bagyo or unos ang naka balandra sa inyo. you will fight for it bec of the word "LOVE"

YOur hubby loves you so much dear.. maybe sometimes he's not demonstrative of his feelings, which is very typical for some guys.. but deep inside he cares about you... tipid lang sia sa pagmamahal..

But perhaps he is showing it in different way naman.. Kakatuwa bec your hubby looks the same as our Korean friend hahaha.

Super ganda mo sa wedding gown mo ha? You look gorgeous Clarz.. kaya naman pala inlove si fafa sa yo..

Clarissa said...

@Mommy Dee:Thanks po sa mga papuri and thanks for dropping by!^_^
@Reanaclaire:hahhaaa!!a half japanese and half chinese from the outside and pure filipina from the inside!Thanks for dropping by!^_^
@Mommy Maria: Many of our friends here at blogosphere missing you--good to hear from u!Thanks for dropping by!^_^
@Mr.Richard: Thanks for the compliment!Nakaka-overwhelmed po!Thanks for dropping by!^_^
@Mommy Umma: Yap,ganun nga siguro ang mga hapon,masyadong matipid sa salita kaya nga siguro nagmana ang asawa ko sa tatay nya!lol!
Si Mommy Umma naman,napaka-ganda sa wedding mo.Napaka-artistic ang photos nyo!Thanks po for dropping by!^_^

Allen's Darling said...

Hi Clarisaa

Yes i will post it i get na your link i will post it tomorrow kc i can't type well sa laptop ko eh i love your story can i post it in my website makakakuha ka ng viewers rin from my site s filipina stories buzzz me if its ok w/u i will link your site- thanks for always think about me ako lazy na hehehe kc sira laptop ko kc hehee sana bilhan ako ng new asawa ko hahahhaaa buzzz me if its oki-oki see you in my site ulit http://filipinastories.com/

Mom of Four said...

Clarissa, naiyak naman ako sa HOTPOT ceremony nyo! I felt so touched sa ginawa ng asawa mo. He fought really hard for your love. Bhuhuhuhu! you are so lucky to have him as your hubby. Please, take care of that marriage. Bihira na ang ganyan ngayon. I am so glad you found your love..Ingat dyan and have a great happily ever after forever..

^`º_ßÖßËLLê^ª* said...

HI sistah,,sorry ha,hindi masyadong kakakilig ang marriage proposal but ang nagpakilig sa akin when your husband fought you to his parents,,yan ang lalake diba>>your so lucky kasi natanggap ka rin kaagad ng father niya..

Your so lovely and georgous when you got married....

kalyo galera said...

ang ganda ni te CLARISSA!!! :D

Allen's Darling said...

Hi clar

ito na post ko na kasali ka na sa contest sa 4rth batch okies hehehee salamat! i will buzzz u if start na oki

http://filipinastories.com/2009/03/love-story-of-clarrissa.html

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