Well, if you have memorized ( lol ) my life here in Japan, you might have read here atKizuna about my Father-In-Law who was against a Filipina to be a wife to his son and that's me^_^ After the acceptance, we had our wedding reception here in Japan to formally introduce me to the whole clan and relatives both their sides and when he had his speech, he said that when Yochan ( my husband) decided to get married to a Filipina, he was not against us blah, blah, blah but he didn't know that everybody knows that he was against me and the mouth fightings between him and Yochan lol! And my husband whispered 'liar' sitting beside me lol!
My FIL, ( I call him otousan which means Father) is an old fashioned Japanese and we respect him as the head at home. He's very strict in some way but so loving. He may not express too much in words but in gestures ( like his son lol). I love him like my real father! There was a time that he went for a visit at the apartment during our first year of marriage ( before living in with them) and he brought a watermelon with him as an omiyage (pasalubong) which was really big enough to be eaten for two. My goodness, dadalawa lang kami lol! I can'tremember kung ilang araw namin naubos yun lol! He changed a lot the time we lived with them most especially when I gave birth to his first apo, Wakaba chan.
When we have some drinking sessions at thebukid of tralala, we love to talk/ joke about the 'against thingy' and would tease him like crazy. He would just say ' sonna kotto oboetanai neeh!'
I can't recall I said something like that!' LOL!!!
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Wednesday, June 9, 2010
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i "memorize" the story pero at least naman after the acceptance, close na kayo hehehe... i can see the fun everytime you teased him...
Liar pala hahaha.. I can't blame your FIL sis, kasi meron ding bagang mga kababayan natin na iba talaga ang motive when they get marry a foreigner diba.. At lease bestfriends na kayo ngayon heheheh..
lol Uso ne.. pero ilang years na nga ba ang nakalipas, ang bilis no, ngayon nabibiro mo na sya.. AT ang swerte naman nya sa yo dahil nabigyan mo sya ng 2 napakagandang apo =
Yung stepdad ni Hide di ko pa mabiro, napaka majime kasi at ako naman ay nahihiya..
I can still remember yung story nyo ni FIL mo, Clang; buti naman at BF na akyo :-)
haha... liar talaga ang binulong ni hubby mo, ate clang ha... katuwa... pero I'm happy to know na happy ending naman pala, kaya oks na yun... haha!!!
love reading this...You're so close with him :)
I seldom chat with my FIL now, as he already can't hear well and he doesn't want to use a hearing aid. I have to speak very loud near his hear...
Hehehe, nag deny na noh? but know what? you are lucky to get along well with your father in law. Might be against you at first, lahat naman ng father eh concern sa kung sino ang makakasama ng anak nila di ba? but in the end, he realized that his son's life is so happy because of you.. and he's he's happy for his son..
May hardships rin ang ibang girls towards their FIL nuh? Glad you got accepted sis, well, they have no other choice because you are the heart of your husband :) Glad to hear about your Father in law. BTW, nice to hear some japanese language here :)
mukhang magkasundong-magkasundo kayo ng FIL mo pati na rin MIL mo. i am happy for you. hindi lahat kase nakakasundo ang mga in-laws lalo na kung iba ang nationality. you are very lucky for having a loving husband and good in-laws.
Minsan naman sa umpisa lang talaga na ayaw ng mga parents kung sino man mapapangasawa ng anak nila. Pero once na nakilala na nila ito ng lubusan e naiiba na ang tingin nila lalo na kung mabait at maalaga na katulad mo. Ayan naman pala ka bonding mo FIL mo sa lasingan e. hihihi!
at least BF at magkasundo na kayo ngayon kahit ayaw nya dati. natawa naman ako dun sa "liar"na b ulong ngt hubby mo.
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