---Our Wedding Reception in Japan---My Father-In-Law don't like me as a wife of his son coz I'm a Filipina and he has no choice but to accept me lol! We live in one roof with them ( after a year of getting married ) and just like marriage, it requires a lot of work and patience. I had a good relationship with my Father-In-Law ( even though he was against me at first ) and although he has some quirks that I don't like, he treats me well and I know how to handle him as days went on. Well I guess, communication is the key. OK, I won't lie... communication didn't work at first coz he speaks very native Japanese language lol! As in wala sa bukid! Nasa bukid na nga kami di ko pa cya maintindihan lol! My Mother-In-Law and I have a wonderful relationship-- she's my beer-friend!^_^I can tell her and be frank with her about everything most especially whenever my husband and I had some arguements and differences while holding some beer together with my two sisters-in-law lol! And I guess that's the reason why my BIL is still single coz he's hearing a lot of stories from us 'bout our husbands--he says 女ってくわいい!!( I'm afraid of you women! )LOL!
---Me and my MIL and Sisters-In-Law---Living with them all in one roof means a lot of adjustments and differencies and there are times that all we had a very difficult moment and have stepped into each others toes, had a very tearful, a heart-to-heart conversation and accepted each others fault and be sorry. And all we came to understand each other better.
I love them and they love me. It's the Kizuna ( ties and bonds of love ) that strengthens our family ^_^
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yup, i remember your story clearly; and so true na good communication is the very key, glad you are now very close.
naalala ko rin tuloy yung FIL dun sa isang posst mo about father.usually sa umpisa lang naman ayaw but once makita nila na mabait tayo ay love na rin tayo in the end.
I remember your story too mami Clang....para karing dumaan sa butas ng karayom....hehehhe...but look at you now...super close sa mga in-laws....they were so lucky to have you....love the pics...para kang kafatid ng mga SILs mo...hehehhe!
Napaka swerti rin ni Yochan and his family sayo clang, you are such sweet person. Mura mns d ka ug hapon clang.
It's so nice to know that you have such a close relationship as a family. Differences are part naman talaga of every family, and hindi mo talaga iyan maiiwasan 'coz iba-iba kasi ang personality ng tao. But what's good is when despite of the difference is that close pa rin kayo and you still love each other.
I like this post kasi it shows the true bonds of a happy family.
Belated happy Father's day pala to your hubby! :)
Aww beer-mates pala hahaha, tagay pa hik lol.. Nasa tralala na nga di pa maintindihan hahaha, but am sure ang galing mo na pagjapanese hehehe.. Have a nice weekend Clang!
Hi sis, sorry for my late CC visit. You and your PIL live in one roof? Wow, I'm inspired by your patience :) Buti nga mababait sila sayo nuh?
http://www.heartscontentofamama.com/2010/06/cc-first-impression-about-with-our-in.html
It's my fault Mommy Clang, ang title nito before eh relationship with in laws talaga, eh kaso na post na ang introduction about mother and MIL saka father at FIL, kaya parang feeling ko eh ma uulit ang description ng relationship towards the in laws. kaya i changed the title. soweee po...
naku, kahit di ka type ng FIL mo at first, napatunayan mo naman na you are worth marrying di ba? saka masaya naman ang hubby mo sa yo at kita naman nilang isa kang dakilang asawa at ina oh ha. kaya ba nila yan?? thanks for joining this week. mwahhh!
Buti ka pa may ka bonding sa tagayan jan! hehehe!
Nice naman may beermate ka dyan.hehehe
ATe im so bilib talaga sa yo, kaya naman super japanized kana. Living with inlaws requires a lot of pakikisama.. kung ako nga, kapitbahay ko lang mga inlaws ng mama ko, ikaw pa kaya na kasama sa house. Pero infairness, once nakuha mo mga loob nila, wala ng pressure at super bait pala nila.. About sa inlaws ko, close ko naman mom ni Hide, napaka-cool kasi, hindi yung usual na japanese obasan na napaka-strict. Yung Stepdad ni Hide medyo enryou shiteru pa ko kasi napaka-majime kasi eh, tahimik kasi lol..
Anyway, im so happy for you.. you're so lucky, dami ko rin kasi kakilala pinay na hindi kasundo ang mga inlaws til now.
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