Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Couple's Corner--When Simple Sorry Is Not Enough


I promised to quit smoking but for a heavy smoker like me, quitting the habit was hard. When he's at work, I puff once in a while but the urge is too strong that a single puff ain't enough and he kept on giving me a chance still. 'Just one last puff ' says me and made the biggest mistake of my life and left him with my belongings when he told me that he'll divorce me if I won't stop--I guess it's a big deal to him coz I promised to quit smoking when we're still both single and he is so much concern about my health and all. My PIL's doors is always open for me and my MIL picked me up at the apartment( gladly lol! ) after calling her and stayed at the bukid of tralala for awhile hoping that Yochan would follow and bring me back home to Fukushima but there's no Yochan, not even a single ring at the phone. I cried and realized my fault and called him days after. I wanted to be home and I missed him badly and swallowed my pride with a promise not to smoke anymore--and it's for real otherwise, I might lose him forever with full of regrets for the rest of my life. I went home at the apartment and cooked for him the time he arrived from work--I was about to tell him I was sorry but he just hugged me and told me okaerinasai ( welcome back ). Gosh, I'm so guilty--he's so good to me but what have I done? That was 8 years ago and from that day on until now, I haven't had a taste of my fave cigar and wouldn't even dare to smoke again that caused us much damage to our relationship.
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11 comments:

sheng said...

OMG!Good that you realized your fault and finally quit smoking...but i can't imagine that you left him just because of that hehehe...

Happy CC.

Mylene said...

Good to know that you no longer smoke. It is really damaging to the body.

Rossel said...

he was just concerned, clang. thank God that you were able to patch up things. ika nga nila e love is lovelier the second time around kaya pala sweet na sweet kayo sa isa't-isa.

*♥Shydub♥* said...

You are so lucky clang with your hubibi, ang pag ibig nga naman diba. Well, that's good that you quit smoking. Bahala tagay nlng ta ayaw lng smoke. pwedi sd shabu nlng shakoy-bukayo wahahaha basta wag lang smoke I can't stand the smell. Too bad i found a man who's mouth is like tambutso and can't quit his smoking habit. pag iwan ko to kawawa mga bata.

Umma said...

Wow... I couldnt believed he was that serious when telling you to quit smoking. He is a man of few words but abundance of actions.

Ahem... so "tagay" is okay for him? hahaha.. I could join you for that.

Thanks Mommy CLangz for the visit.. missed you already.

Mommy Liz said...

Nagbalot ka Mommy Clang? kasi pinapatigil ka mag smoke eh di ka naman natigil?? Minsan we have to lose someone or something muna before we realize how important they are di ba? Nak ng patis, di ka man lang sinundo?? hehehe.. Kapag at fault tayong mga girls, dapat talaga nag so sorry eh di ba? di pwede ang ating mga friend chicken..

Dhemz said...

oh my! I am so proud of you mamiClang...some other people can't give up that kind of habit...but you did it...great job! saludo ako sau....bait naman ni fafa yochan...ehehehhe!

hahhaa...d mo ba siya ni remind kung bakit d ka nya sinundo...lol!

salamat sa dalaw mamiClang...mwah...mwah!

Wifey10 said...

Good decision Clang, ako rin I was smoking before but bf ko pa lang yung asawa ko natigil na ako cos I know he can't stand the smell of cigar and I felt the bad effect of it as well. Red lips pa makukuha mu pag di ka nagsosmoke!hehehe..

anney said...

Saludo ako sayo at kinaya mo mag quit agad mag smoke. Yung iba kasi paunti unti lang kasi nga nahihirapan.

niko said...

aw. super baet ni fafa yochan! am glad you woke up from your senses..naku kukulubot agad ang mganda mong skin pag nag yosi ka.. buti n lng hihihi

Mel Cole of PA, USA said...

I realize how marvelous marriage will change ones bad habits. You proved it Clar, you changed for better because of him. I agree with him, it is for your own good and I bet he doesn't want to lose you.

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